When Divorce Hurts Too Long – Take the Long Way Home (6th in a Series) By Mary Johnson-Gerard Divorce is a process that takes different paths depending on each of our particular histories. Some people zip through a divorce as if it were something they do every day and for those who have [...]
Casualty of Divorce – Self Esteem By Lisa Fredette The reason for and the process of divorce is as varied as the shape of snowflakes. There is however a commonality among most divorce survivors – low self-esteem. Almost everyone I have spoken to or have coached around divorce recovery have low self-esteem in [...]
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God is in Control By Jason Deines While I was going through my divorce, it felt like there was no one there for me. I mean, my spouse had chosen to leave and contrary to what I believed and thought she believed she had chosen to leave and that is exactly what she [...]
Divorce recovery is tough enough without our making it unnecessarily difficult, isn’t it? Aren’t the losses we endure quite enough to deal with without adding more imagined losses to the pile? The obvious answer to these questions is, of course, “Yes.” However, we routinely ignore the obvious when dealing with the fallout from our divorce [...]
Recovery from divorce requires us to confront the emotional reality of lost hopes and dashed dreams. We also have to confront our fears of an unknown future. When we are immersed in this emotional process, often we can’t see our options or understand the reality of the situation as clearly as when the pressure is [...]
It can be difficult to get over a divorce and cope with a divorce when you are in pain. A ton of emotions and indecisiveness consumes you. There is a simple process to help the serious individual get over a divorce. Very few people stay with the same individual for over twenty years. Therefore, a [...]
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Recovery from divorce requires us to make changes in our lives. Lots of changes. No big surprise here. For example, divorce almost always forces us to make changes in our relationships, our finances, our living arrangements, our health-related activities, our self-development, and our recreational and social activities. The logical prescription to speed our transition from [...]
Does your whole life seem to be up in the air–even familiar things don’t seem the same? Are you confused about what to do now, where to go from here or how to heal a broken heart? Whether or not you instigated the divorce, it may seem as though a tornado has whirled its way [...]
If you do not know what a Divorce Recovery group is, it is a group of people who walk alongside you through one of life’s most difficult experiences. Groups are led by people who understand divorce and what you are going through. They offer valuable information and resources in helping you heal and rebuild your [...]
Continue reading about How to Find a Divorce Recovery Group in Your Area- By Shelley Grieser
After divorce, we often hear people tell us, “Time heals all wounds,” or “Just give it some time,” or “You’ll feel better in the morning?” Used like this, time is seen as some type of healing source. But is it, really? Will the passage of time really “heal all our wounds?” Will it actually bring [...]