I just wanted to tell you about this really great book- Verbal Abuse Survivors Speak Out by Patricia Evans. I had been going to counseling for about a year. My counselor told me one day to read this book. I said, “Why would I want to read that? I’m not verbally abused!” She said, ”Just do me [...]
I Was The Wind Beneath His Wings, But Those Weren’t Angel Wings I Was Under! One day, a while before I asked for a separation, my Ex brought me home a CD with this song on it. He said he wanted me to listen to it, because it described me. That should have made me [...]
My Ex was living in a Condo in Seattle at the time of Separation. He was visiting us every other weekend- Friday through Monday. The three boys and I were living in Northern CA. I thought it was a no brainer that I would stay in the family home with all three of the boys. [...]
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I just came across the words to this song. How appropriate for how I felt shortly after I separated from my Ex. Just because he didn’t treat me with respect or even decency, I still loved him. It’s unbelievable to me now, because I wonder what there was to love about him. Even though I [...]
My “After Divorce” photo! A Little about Me I’m writing my story so that you will get to know a little more about me. Hopefully, you will relate to some of the events that happened in my marriage. All of my life, all I wanted was to be happily married to one man and to [...]
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I believe in marriage, but only if it’s a healthy marriage! My goal was always to stay married to one man my entire life- until one of us passed away. Both sets of my grandparents, who lived to be in their 80′s, celebrated their 50th Wedding Anniversaries. Unfortunately, from the start of my marriage I [...]
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A friend of mine once described divorce like this. Have you ever accidentally torn an important document? You really need that paper, so you try everything to make it look whole again. You try to match the two pieces by lining up the feathered edges and gluing them together. Then, you put some tape on [...]
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Please Don’t Alienate Your Children From Your Spouse! Parents, please watch these videos! It’s important to know how painful it is for the parent who is being alienated from their child or children. I can totally relate to this man’s pain! No matter how angry we are at our spouse when we are going through [...]
No, really… that’s what it seemed like! I could barely function! I was a Stay-at-Home Mom. My life revolved around my children- taking them to school, volunteering at their school, cooking, cleaning, etc. In an instant, I went from 3 children to 1- when my two oldest children went to live with their Dad. Actually, [...]
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I am by no means an expert on divorce. The only expertise I have is that I went through a horrible divorce just like many other people out there. The only thing that really helped me to start to move on with my life is to realize that I can’t control anyone’s life. I can [...]
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